Don Ablah

October 23, 1932 ~ May 21, 2023
Don Ablah passed away on May 21, 2023 after a brief illness. Don was born in Wichita in 1932. He was the third of four children of Lebanese immigrant parents: Frank J. Ablah from whom he inherited his incredible work ethic and Nellie Ablah who gave him the gift of compassion for others.Don attended Wichita High School East, University of Kansas and graduated from Wichita State University. He then proudly served in the United States Army and that service provided him the opportunity to tour Europe and visit the home of his heritage in Lebanon. Returning home, he went to work for the family business Ablah Hotel Supply, founded by Frank and Harvey Ablah. It was there that he developed his lifelong appreciation for restaurants and their operators. In 1981 he began a long and successful career in commercial real estate. First on his own, then with his brothers and eventually with his sons, he continued to work until a few days before his death at the age of 90. As a real estate professional, he took a genuine interest in the success and good fortunes of his clients. His career was important to him and was manifested in his love of Wichita and most importantly its people in all walks of life. He never met a stranger, as the saying goes, so whether it was a meeting with a bank president, a young entrepreneur, or just an old acquaintance, every person he encountered was treated with the respect he or she deserved. He was honored by his peers to being named the recipient of the prestigious Walter Morris Broker of The Year award in 2006.Don had a natural drive to help those less fortunate and their families. He was involved in too many community organizations to mention. He justifiably felt that both his tenure on the Kansas Commission for Civil Rights and his vital role in the Wichita State Speaker Series on Civil Disobedience and Non Violence left legacies that endure to the present day. He found his time working at The Menninger Foundation in Topeka to be very rewarding as well. To commemorate his lifetime body of work in philanthropy he was awarded the Brotherhood/Sisterhood Award from the National Conference of Christians and Jews.Don married Faith Rahal of Tulsa with whom he spent 62 wonderful years. Don’s love for Faith and his entire family was always the center of his life. He would drop anything to lend a hand, large or small, to anyone that needed it. Nothing brightened “Giddo’s” day as much as being in the presence of his three granddaughters, Kamilla, Jaida, and Olivia. By listening to members of the family and then applying his quiet, but deep wisdom he encouraged all their endeavors and aspirations. Life lessons were imparted but never forced and were always rooted in his vast array of experiences. He was the most supportive husband, father, grandfather, sibling, uncle and friend imaginable. He carried himself with a grace, dignity and humility that was an example to all those fortunate enough to know him. The family wants to thank all those who cared for Don during his last days, most notably the end-of-life team at Wesley Hospital MICU. Don is preceded in death by his parents, Frank and Nellie Ablah; sister, Lucille Barkett; brother, George Ablah; brother, Amil Ablah; and son in-law, Alan Pulkkila. He is survived by his wife, Faith; children, Rachelle Ware (Jerry), Craig Ablah (Stacey), Christian Ablah (Joy) and Leigh Ann Ablah (Eric); granddaughters, Kamilla Sims, Jaida Sims, and Olivia Ablah, all of Wichita, and Paige Poonthaisong and Kayden Robare; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and friends all of whom were very important to him.Memorials have been established with: Starkey, Inc., 4500 W. Maple, Wichita, KS 67209; The Wichita State Library Special Collections, 1845 Fairmount, Wichita, KS 67260-0068; International Orthodox Christian Charities efforts in Syria, 110 West Rd., Ste. 360, Baltimore, MD 21204. Services for Don will be at 10:00 am, Wednesday, May 24, 2023, at St. George Orthodox Christian Cathedral, 7515 E. 13th St.Services in care of Downing & Lahey East Mortuary.
Dear Ablah Family: We are sad that Don will no longer be here to answer all our questions and share his wisdom, but we are joyful to celebrate God’s “good work” in loaning Don to us. If everyone that would like to claim Don as family truly could, he would definitely be “Father Abraham?” God will honor him with every blessing Psalm 37:34). Barbara Cooper
Rest Don, until you hear at dawn, the low, clear reveille of God. Thank you for your service to this nation. U.S. Army.
Don was such a fine man. My life is better because I knew him. He would often stop by my office with books or articles that he thought I would find interesting. I loved to visit with him. He always brightened my day. Truly a life well lived.
Faith – he would tell me many stories of your wonderful life together. Craig and Christian – he loved to tell me of your real estate and life success.
May God grant peace to your entire family. Richard James
As a young real estate sales person in the 70’s, Don Ablah always treated me with great respect, even though his experience was far greater that mine. I will always remember him for that. Tender condolences to the Ablah family. Don was a true “classic”.
Marlin K. Penner
My condolences to the family of Don. I had the pleasure of knowing Don for over 50 years and always found him to be very straight forward and a man of his word. He will be missed by many. May he rest in peace.
Ever since Don started in the real estate business in 1981 until I retired in 2003, we were friends, and worked together on all of his projects and the Comaterra area. I can honestly say, I don’t believe I’ve ever met, or had dealings with a nicer man than Don Ablah. I will cherish them forever.
Condolences to the family. A life well lived
One of the true pleasures of. being involved in the Wichita commercial real estate market was getting to know and work with Don. He was always congenial and professional and treated everyone with genuine respect. Don was a great guy and living proof that nice guys don’t always finish last.
Jerry Gray